The Philadelphia Natural Hair Show - Saturday May 4, 2013

"Philly Natural Hair Show"

Contacts: Celena McAfee (267) 685‐6173 celena@phillynaturalhairshow.com
Monique P. Eversley (215) 948‐2603 monique@phillynaturalhairshow.com

The Natural Hair Movement Continues in Philadelphia!
First Annual Exhibition Showcasing Natural Hair Comes to the Sheraton Philadelphia Downtown Hotel, May 4, 2013

PHILADELPHIA, PA ‐ The Philadelphia Natural Hair Show will debut on Saturday, May 4, 2013 from 10 AM to 7 PM. This event will showcase leading hair care experts, celebrity hairstylists, salons, top natural hair care companies, and local businesses to hundreds of women of color women from the tri‐state area. It will be held in the heart of center city at the Sheraton Philadelphia Downtown Hotel, 201 North 17th Street, Philadelphia, PA. Tickets are $20 and can be purchase at phillynaturalhairshow.eventbrite.com. Children 12 years old and under attend free.
Today, more women of color are choosing to wear their hair in its natural state. The Philadelphia Natural Hair Show, founded by Monique P. Eversley and Celena McAfee, was created to offer women with curly‐textured tresses alternative methods to grow and retain healthy hair. Attendees can participate in a series of workshops that include: maintenance for transitioning hair to its natural state; understanding hair types and products that work best for them; and hands‐on styling techniques for home usage. In addition, there will be focus group discussions that consist of a variety of hair trending topics including the corporate politics of ethnic hair. Professional stylists will also demonstrate creative options to give women various hairstyles that will take them from casual to corporate environments. For a full listing of workshops, visit phillynaturalhairshow.com.
“Our goal is to empower women to adapt natural hairstyles to their personal and professional lifestyles,” said Co‐founder Monique P. Eversley.
“It is a great opportunity to embrace the beauty of natural hair and to learn about the various health benefits, products and services to aid women in this process,” commented Co‐founder Celena McAfee.
Attendees will meet Felicia Leatherwood, celebrity hairstylist, Lori L. Tharps, author of Hair Story: Untangling the Roots of Black Hair in America, along with other natural hair experts. Attendees will also receive goodie bags with products from Miss Jessie’s, Hair Rules, Wonder Curl, and others while supplies last. This event will culminate with the Textures Not Textiles Natural Hair Fashion Show that will highlight natural hair salons and stylists. Men are also encouraged to attend and enjoy the show. As a treat for our registered attendees, free haircuts courtesy of Mike Monroe from ESPM Hair Zone will be offered to young males between 5 to 12 years old.
Philadelphia Natural Hair Show has a vision for all women to love the hair they were given.
For more information or to schedule an interview with Monique P. Eversley and Celena McAfee,
please call (215) 948 2603, (267) 685‐6173 or email us at info@phillynaturalhairshow.com.

B.S. - Beauty vs Substance This Mans Point of View

It takes more than a pretty face to keep my attention. My how the times have changed. Talk to me 20 yrs. ago, I'd have told you I'd take a pretty face 10/10 times. Don't get me wrong I love a smart woman, there's nothing sexier; but you know how we do,(previous BLOG), I'm a man, so when I found both it was a BIG win for me!
Bringing back to current times: I require Substance, I prefer Both, I will accept Beauty. Please Please, don't get me wrong, looks do play a part!
Substance - Yes all men want "eye candy" to look at and to show off to his boys. As they say once the lights go out I need you to keep my attention behind closed doors, and I'm not talking set either. I'm talking talk. Can you keep a conversation and keep my mind occupied. I can't speak for a brothers out here but I get bored easily. I need to be mentally stimulated as well as sexually stimulated. I need you to be able to talk about any and everything with me. Yes I watch the news, local and world. I'm not talking you being a rocket scientist because I'm not that smart. All I'm asking is, be open, be able to communicate with me and we will make this thing work!
Beauty - We all want to live the Jay-Z or Tom Brady life; it's every brothers dream! Halle Berry, The Flotus Mrs Obama & B! What man in their right mind wouldn't want these beautiful ladies by their side. The thing that makes these women beautiful outside of the looks is the brains and how they master their domain! These women own everything they do. Their substance is what makes these women beautiful. Wow how I keep coming back to that word.
I guess a man can change his ways. So ladies take notes, as we men change, you need to change with us and know; it's not all about the pretty looks. As mom-mom always told me: "God don't like ugly and he's not crazy about beauty!" Think about it, you'll figure it out like I eventually did.








Disclaimer: These are just one mans opinions, mine. Names & pictures used are not an endorsement of this Blog!

We're Men: You Know How We Do...

They're MEN, that's what they do. He's just being a MAN. Did you really expect him to do something different. All phrases that are commonly used by women to describe a MANs behavior or actions. Of course there are many more that I could have gone with; I just decided to stop here with these. (Ladies feel free to post your phrase below when you post your replies!). All that being said, you know your man or guy that's in your life; you know how he/ we will react in certain situations and settings. We're men! Lets analyze why we do what we do...
Don't be afraid brothers I'm not going deep into our men's handbook, I won't break the CODE!
Ladies, it's not that deep or complicated as to why we do what we do. Yes I'm taking it there: Women! Women you are the root cause of us MEN acting how we act. Think about...
Scenario 1:
Summer Day nice out and y'all women got them sexy ass Sundress's on.
Here you come walking down the street looking good, better yet smelling all good. Are we not supposed to look? I mean really; you probably spent 2 hours in the house getting yourself all prepped to make your appearance. Hair, nails, perfume/body spray, and yes picking out the perfect outfit for the day. You women know what your mission is before you step out the door: Turn Heads! So if that's the mission all us men are going to do is oblige your mission and LOOK at that ass as you walk by. I mean this why you spent all that in the mirror trying to figure out, "does this look right???" So remember when you walk down the street, we're gonna look, - that's what we do! It's Spring again... Sundress's on deck!
Scenario 2:
Him - sitting down watching the game throwing a few back...
Her - Talking/asking questions (Ladies insert question or topic here _____?)
Real talk, we're not listening. We will agree, say yes, nod, give you a very general "Ok babe, yeah you're right. We won't even know what we agreed to or probably didn't even know what was said until next week sometime when you asking us why we didn't what we said we was gonna do. What we do know is, the game is on; we don't want to be bothered and we will do whatever it takes for y'all to leave us the hell alone! Really, you had to ask me that shit right here, right now??? That could have waited another half hour. So on the following Tuesday when you're asking us why we're not doing what we said we would do on Saturday when the game was on: we were just trying to see the game and have a drink - that's what we do! It's March MarchMadness ain't it? Don't ask me to do shit for the next 2 weeks... IJS Go TU Go TU!

These were just 2 examples of why we do what we do. I told the brothers I wasn't gonna to deep in the Men's Handbook and I didn't, yet I got my point across. Matter of fact , I'm stopping here because there is another game on as I compose this blog. I got to go get my drink and post up - You Know How We Do! Rum/Coke on deck...

Dating 2013: The Rules of the Game Have Changed!

Remember meeting that special person. Maybe you were out chilling with your boys and she her girls or you could have met on campus in the cafe or on the Quad, them frat/soror parties always brought them out!!! #College.
Then there was the getting to know them phase; going to the movies, out to dinner or maybe a few walks in the park. We did all this and still weren't a OFFICIAL couple until you met the family, at the BBQ or maybe on the front porch. Man how those were the days!
That was dating back in the day...

Let's fast forward to Dating 2013 style; my my my, how the dating scene has changed.
1. You now have the www.WorldWideWeb.com where you don't have to do anything. You no longer have to go out and meet a possible mate to Date. You can create the person you want to meet by setting certain criteria: Age, location, race, and socio-economic status. The computer age has taken the human factor out of dating in 2013. There all kind of dating sites out there where all we have to do is submit a profile and we have 10-20 possible mates on one page (all depending on your settings.) I can remember a time when the only profile I had what I was wearing when I went out! Yes, the game has changed.
Let's explore this a little further...
2. By now, we all have a smartphone, iPhone or Droid, iPad or tablet of some type. Which means we all have the Internet in the palm of our hand. Just sit and watch, how many people are:texting, on Facebook and Twitter. This now the way we communicate with one another. I don't know about y'all, but if I lose my phone I won't be able to call you and tell you because I don't know anybody's number anymore. Back in the day I knew everyone's number, hell I barely remember mine when they ask for it on anything. I say all this to say, as good as technology has become and still growing, it has been the downfall to social skills. We no longer have to call to say hello like most the females like, all I have to do is hit the send button "Hey sup" or "busy". I can reach you faster by sending a text than I can if I call. So this is where the dating scene has gone. I can sit at my computer, look for what's happening in the city tonight, then send you a text or email saying meet me @_____. I dare you to say I'm telling a lie! The computer age has taken full effect on our dating scene and from the looks of it things won't be changing. I will Skype you and we can finish this later!!!
Let's not just blame the www.com:
Ladies, yes #Ladies I'm about to call y'all out. Women have changed the dating scene too! Hmmm, where to start on this one part here...
3. Ladies you changed the game when y'all decided y'all no longer needed men; Independent Woman is what I think you've termed it. Being independent and being to hold your own is one thing. Then when you determine you no longer need men to go out: to the movies, to the clubs, and even dinner; that struck a blow to the Pride. - That's a different Blog fellas!
4. Oh yes I'm not done with y'all #women just yet... Ladies I hear you talk about how a man no longer knows how to court you. Well of course he doesn't know how when you took the ball from our court. Stay with me; we could no longer pick you up and go "Out" as we call it. Men no longer control the date. Y'all took it over. It went from going out getting to know each other to where can we take you and who you gonna impress when we get there. Think about, when you go out on these so-called dates, how much time do you sit and talk to each other? Do you want another drink or that's my jam right here don't count! If you want to be courted give the ball back and let that man find out what your interests are. On his own, if he's interested he will play your game!
The ball will still end up in your court...
Let's see if the Rules of the Game will change again!
#Relationships2013 The Series
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Ladies you tell me!

I'm going to be short and sweet with this...
Ladies/Women: What type of #Man do you want in your life? That Guy you want to settle and marry? If marriage is not your thing, then just date.
Once we get enough replies or comment we will Dive In further!
Be honest with me and most important - be honest with yourself...
Time is yours,